Blog for Tonight, June 22, 2013
What a privilege to be able to serve our LORD, to see Him at work in the lives of folks around me. Today was a
special day to serve Him. How? A beautiful wedding for a beautiful young couple. One of my favorite parts of ministry is to have the authority to perform weddings. Crystal and J.P. are beautiful. The location couldn't have been prettier. Even though we had to hurry because of lightning and rain, God's blessing was very apparent.
I used two words in that paragraph that might not be high on your list of words to use when describing a wedding. What are the words? They are "serve" and "authority." I used the same scripture today that I have quoted at dozens of weddings, Genesis 2:24, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." Hidden in the middle of that verse you can find meaning for both of those words.
Serving one another is the best way to leave, be united and become one, as the verse describes. The way to accomplish this miracle, serving each other for a lifetime, is to daily ask certain questions, like, "how can I best serve my spouse." Another is, "how does my service to GOD deepen my service to my spouse?" It can all be boiled down into a statement, with the authority of the Scriptures, that, "I best serve GOD by serving others, and especially in our marriage."
The word "authority" is also bandied about quite often in relationships, with folks demanding "their way." Whether in marriage or in church, or in any of our other relationships, if you have to demand authority, you don't have any. Some church leaders have allowed elected names or titles or other forms of stated authority to swell heads and cause tension.
Our sermon from Mark 1:21-34 this weekend is a gentle reminder for such leaders, "And they were all amazed, so that they questioned among themselves, saying, “What is this? A new teaching with authority! He commands even the unclean spirits, and they obey him.” Dear ones, love one another, for love is of GOD and everyone who loves is born of GOD and knows GOD. At the surface, that kind of love seems most apparent at a wedding. As I left the picture taking to others, I visited with a family member who has been married since 1968 to the same man. She could teach you something about authority, about service and about loving. GOD Bless Crystal and J.B. GOD Bless your bride, MCC. big marv